Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Back Home


Sorry for the lack of blogs recently. So many things have been happening in the last few weeks and we are just catching up with ourselves! The main reason we are back in Scotland is because Mary's dad - David - was diagnosed with a serious strain of cancer and we decided to come home to spend time with Mary's parents and help them at this difficult time.

We only had a few days to get things sorted out at Sefton. I think Mary and I had around 20 meetings with people in a couple of days. The great thing is that Keith & Anne are still there and will return to UK in April 7th. Matthew & Claire are also there, so we decided that we had a window of opportunity to come home ... and we did. We only have one life and we are often faces with difficult decisions ... but I often preach that 'people are more important than things." No regrets.

We arrived back to cold & snowy Scotland on February 13th. We spent the first weekend in Fraserburgh and had the opportunity to attend the Dedication of our wee niece Eve (Mary's brother's girl) This was a real unexpected bonus!


We then went up to Wick and were there for almost two weeks. David was diagnosed at the beginning of February and then immediately started his first treatment of chemo. Many are praying for him ... and we are seeing the results of prayer. He reacted very well to the fist treatment and felt much stronger. The pain in his hip went and he was able to walk and even drive. This gave him a real boost. We had a great time as a family, with the kids, and that alone was worth the air fare!

We drove him down for his second chemo two weeks ago and then I took the kids down to Fraserburgh to give David & Wilma some peace! Again, David reacted so well with the chemo. Mary stayed in Wick for a few days and then joined us in Fraserburgh. We stayed there over last weekend and I was able to minister in Elim and Emmanuel churches in Fraserburgh. Really enjoyed it!

We needed to get away as a family and we managed to book into a fantastic place called Crieff Hydro. All you Scottish people ... you need to come here! Amazing. Whatever the age you are ... there is something for you to do. It has definitely the best kids facilities in any hotel I have ever been to. Today, the kids went swimming twice, went to soft play, went to the outdoor adventure playground, ate at the amazing 'Kidz Buffet (with tons of good food and also Angel Delight etc!) and tonight they spent 2 hours at the Kids Club - completely supervised by staff. This is all free as part of your accommodation! Josiah told me that "it was the best day of his life!" If you don't believe me ... believe him!


We are going down to the Central Belt on Thursday to visit some friends down there. We will go back up to Fraserburgh on Saturday (I will be preaching at Fraserburgh AoG on Sunday) and then on to Wick Monday. And then ... we'll take it from there!

At the beginning of the year we were given a word from a good friend -"Take one day at a time." We didn't understand it then,but we do now! David gets his 3rd Chemo on Friday March 20th and we are praying for continued strength. If he does well we will plan to go back to the Philippines on the last week of March.

Pray for us as we learn to draw from God enough grace as we need for each day. Pray that we would do the right thing and not be impulsive in our decisions. Pray most of all for David as he journeys through these difficult days. For Wilma, as she supports him and tries to maintain her life. For Mary, as she tries to help her mum & dad at this time. It's not easy and she wants to do the best. For the kids, as they adjust to moving around and meeting new people. they are amazing really! For all at Sefton, as they have to adjust to us not being there.

Thanks for your love and encouragement at this time. Will keep you posted on any news.

Many blessings,

Mark

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Ats fine your enjoying yourselves. Yep, Creiff Hydro is def the best place for kids to have fun! fun! fun! And of course Parents to relax! relax! relax!
Enjoy
Love Ashley x x

Anonymous said...

Hey Mark! Good ti hear yer havin a good time awa!! You were great on sunday night and wiz so good seein yis again. Love and prayers!!
Rachel..x:)

Anonymous said...

AWWWWWwwwwwwwww cute pics!!

Will make sure I see u's!! Don't want a bad name for myself!!

Love to u all,

Auntie Vivix

Anonymous said...

Continuing to pray for you all, Delighted you've managed to fit a few days holiday into the plan and u've had such a gr8 time. Looking forward to seeing you all on Sunday, Grace

Anonymous said...

wow! great to hear those things Ptr. Mark! i've been checking your blog since you've left Phils. and i've found nothing. :D, it's been encouraging reading your blog. i'll be posting an update to my blog also kuya, i've just been busy this past few weeks and i don't know what to put on my blog, hehe. God bless! looking forward to seeing you again!

Joboy

Anonymous said...

Wish I had been there too I sure would have enjoyed myself wi these kids. Its great you managed to get away for a few days just on your own to 'hall' yer thoughts eegether! Hivena seen ye yet bit I'm sure we will afore ye gan awa. love BJ n BJ